Thursday, March 18, 2010

Tips to increase sexual desire begins to decline

Over time, the activities performed sex couples on the wane. How do get around passionate sex even if only performed once a week?

With all sorts of activities and work piling up, plus the age marriages are increasing rapidly, the flames the desire to have sex that enthusiasm slowly faded. Though these activities create an intimate and enjoyable relationship remains to be done. If you're one of them, it's time to change those habits.

Typically, couples who love each other and admire each other not to have sex only once a week. But that does not mean sex is also good to do every day. Ideally sex performed a total of two to three times a week.

In order to make that schedule, you need to motivate yourself to do these fun things. Here are tips you can do for self-motivation.

1. Romantic
We are committed to improving your sex life, you also have to improve love life. To make life more romantic love, there are some things that can be modified, for example, by watching a romantic movie to read romantic novels at night.

This can make you become more sensitive and romantic. You also can do so by communicating more with your partner. Discuss the interesting things around or nostalgia to warm your relationship again.

Unwittingly, with increasingly romantic relationship with a partner, then the desire for sex is also increasing. By then, making love on the sidelines of busyness would happen.

2. Create Your Own Schedule
The main cause of couples do not have sex due to the daily preoccupations. Therefore, find the time is right for you and your partner. Sex is not always done at night when the kids are asleep. You can do so at any time with your partner.

If your time with your partner is very narrow, it never hurts to do a 'quickie'. Different sensations will be felt when doing this quickie. You will also feel relaxed and satisfied at once, so be ready to face the pile of work.

3. He conquered
If your spouse refuses to make love, to offer him for a massage. Use a special oil to massage and gentle touch and in doing so you touch the maximum.

Basically a very easy man to inflame. Massages right in sensitive areas can be made instantly excited. Try to make him lay on his back and massaged her thigh area. Massage smooth upward from the knee to the collarbone area, and then start squeezing subtle vital area.

4. Be More Creative
Missionary, missionary and missionary. If every time to make love only that position you do with a partner, not surprisingly decreases the intensity of love. Be a little more creative, guide your partner to explore new positions. The variation of sexual positions may reduce boredom on the couple. Read the Kama Sutra with pictures guide which can be purchased at major bookstores such as Kinokuniya Ak'sara up.

It's not just the position you can do to become more creative in making love. You can try new places to have sex, like sex in the water could be the solution for a different taste sensation like we discussed yesterday.